His Holiness the Dalai Lama «The purpose of life is being happy and being useful «
Why the world is so chaotic with a purpose so simple for the really short human life ?
My younger brother took his own life in 2007, at 28 years old, jumping abroad from the Tour Montparnasse in Paris…. I lost a leg because of cancer at 25 years old and get others diseases my entire life (I was born April 22th 1976).
We grew up in an environment very poor in warm relationships and even in relationships … Why being happy is so difficult for human beings ?
Despite my disability and a lot of struggles the last two decades, I acquired a lot of experiences in various professional fields; The current Pandemic, and the amazing chaos which has been created made me aware there is a real need to change the model of society. So, I thought a lot about it, to honor my late brother and help people at my own level, as well as to create a community in social peer to peer I decided to share with you what I found and the first projects which fit with the new model.
With a true passion for mental Health and communication, with a. Deep experience coaching American football, , and based on the homeostasis theory of consciousness , I developed a for profit research program and business network named DiXabled™ where I involved many concepts I learned in Sowa Rigpa to change the relationship we have with ability.
I truly believe our wish to over control is the root cause of most issues we cope with
The main idea I learned it with this theory is considering homeostasis as a kind of self awareness and a kind of proto consciousness. If you shorten the history of the Earth in a year … mono cellular life appear quickly in the late February and photo synthesis in the late march. Photo synthesis helped mono cellular life to change the Earth…because multi cellular life appear only in November and the first amphibians early December …
The root of this theory is more homeostasis of organisms is complex, more life is exploding … it means homeostasis could be really related with consciousness.
However, from some species, there is also a social homeostasis … many advanced species need to live in group for their survival , it s as important as to live in the right tangible environnement . Primats, dolphins, elephants are extremely smart and extremely sociable animals. The theory suppose it gives the evolution of the Neo cortical functions : being able to analyse reaction of others, environnement … and express emotions. Charles Darwin said the specie who will survive is the specie who will adapt …so both physically and socially
The theory suppose it was the same for the human specie, until the most universal Myth : THE FLOOD
The Flandrian transgression is the rise of the level of the sea by 100 meters .. all the sand of the beach worldwide is related with this event … it s connected with the melting of amazing amount of ice ., so a pure natural phenomenon ! But the theory suppose it created a breaking point in the human consciousness …. : THE MEANING . This is portably why is Jewish calendar has thousands years more, with awareness of this meaning
The theory suppose the human consciousness looked for a meaning to this terrible event ! And the climate change which forced human to convert in agriculture. For the abrahamic traditions, it s the angriness of God.
This breaking point changed the mankind who has been far more disconnect from the Earth and developed traditions cultures, social representations to strengthen its own social homeostasis and remember its events. We written the history of the human species from the ability to perform « size of the brain, capacity to create » only
But HOMO JUCUNDUS does not exist !
In our shorten year, HOMO ERECTUS appears on December 31 at 11.30 am , so, the history of mankind is less than a blink of a eye …. The industrial revolution appears the last second of the year. However, the pandemic showed we impact deeply the Earth.
The two pillars of the human sociology for most societies is acceptation, need of validation and money.
We are social beings, we need to be accepted, it s the third stage of the Maslow pyramid of needs. however, human societies are often organized in social classes. It means our social class could be mistaken with who we are. We inherited from our social class, our social class is our condition, not who we are, …. Who we are is our subjective experience ! It s our story. Ou skills, our ability to be well surrounded … it involved non judgmental care. Why is it so hard to find ? Because we develop, we change and social standings create boundaries …Social standings are rationalized rules to be adopted to preserve the social homeostasis. How to move out our conditions ? Not by being a follower, but by bring something new, asking support , a new value others will love and welcome you . There is a need to be different and in a global world
Money is the more social symbol of social exchange … Money has been shells , stones, metal paper and bit … The physical condition of money change depending the sociology of the groups. With the emergence of the merchants , credit and paper money has been the best choice . It means money have to be a flexible tool. Money is not wealth, wealth is making income . The value of the money is a false question. It depends the nature of the monetary system. We really trust in the vision of Friedrish Hayek about the necessary competition between currencies and now with the cryptos, the NFT we can do it …
The COVID Pandemic has a major common point with the Flood : a global impact
Flood : global event, mankind forced to adapt and change, and develop a meaning , so, we could call it a method FPM, for Focus, Pattern, meaning,
COVID : a first bad focus (protect ou freedom and economy, instead to protect the health by anticipation) , it means an unadapted pattern and meaning full of fake news
Struggle from the Focus made me concerned about the sustainability of our society
So Dixabled is a new universe to be developed in a social peer to peer process. The etymology of the concept is :
DI = 2
X = X factor hidden talent
Able = ability
We believe the ability comes from the connection with strengths to create some wonderful subjectifs experience.
Disability Leadership is my own subjective experience , GETTING PEOPLE OUT OF FEAR AND HELP THEM TO BE DIFFERENT. I have been leg amputated in 2001, but NEVER, NEVER I found the human support to care about me 3 months to get a new leg. My stump is very short and I need a regular life style …. I have had a very bad protest leg, I gave up quickly to walk with crutches and go ACROSS THE WORLD ! And perform on various duties
I coach American football since 1995 and it s a real passion for me… Meet Coach Trestman and his Argos in Toronto in 2018 has been the climax of my experience. Recently a person offered me a share of the NFL Green Bay Packers, making me an NFL Owner.
HRD Antwerp Certified diamond grader with experience in the worldwide famous district , Israel Numismatic Society life member because I collect coins for , International American football Academy board member, Co producer ZAKURA movie , Mastered in Historical Geography , Root tantra instructor in Tibetan medicine …. I love life and learning..
I learned the human being is like a tree.
- The roots are our conditions, where do we come From …… physically sociologicaly, economically …Changing conditions is hard and require outside support but perfectly realistic. Our conditions does not make us who we are …
- The trunk is our education, the value we bring, the experiences we have accumulated , our character. The trunk is more difficult to reeducate, but can be oriented
- The branches are your purpose. What do you produce ? Shadow, fruits, flowers… the production is clearly determined with the trunk.
All the social life , our group homeostasis, is based on two concepts. The community and the society ..
- The community is protective, there, we are common interest and values. But does not autorise so much flexibility
- The society is a dynamic system of social arrangements. Less protective, but more flexible.
My community has not at all protected me , neither my brother how has taken his own life. As a disabled the society protects me …. But is not flexible with me. Without Community, I have no one to care about me and never been able to grow on a healthy way. I can not reach sustainable social arrangements
So, my purpose is helping you to be a good gardener for your tree on an unique perspective …. As a motivational speaker, consultant and project manager . And to change definitely the look on ability …Disabled means out of the ability, and it has never been acceptable. From my visions and rare versatiliy, I want to connect talents to create profits and income , not only financially
With the massive social and economic collapse due to pandemic , I think everyone is « disabled » in the front a social model which is changing …..
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